This week we are pleased to have a guest post from Katherine:
I would like to start off by saying that I have nothing against skinny women. This is a post explaining that the size of your body has no bearing on the personality of a woman and should not worsen ones quality of life. I feel that the overall weight debate should be shifted towards the overall health and wellbeing of a person rather than just ones looks.
We’ve all heard that beauty comes from within and if a woman is unhappy and concerned about her appearance she won’t look good even if she is skinny. According to research the more down-to-earth women were perceived as the ones who did not have perfect figures’.
So I ask you all: “What is more important – the personality or the looks of the person”? Many men will agree that they would rather have a happy woman next to them than a grumpy, body-concerned one. Even more it has been proven that the skinnier women are the ones to be the most body- concerned.
You may have heard that plus size women tend to be more lively, full-of-live, happy, humble, loyal and faithful.
It is all About Curves
Curves are sexy and very feminine so there is no reason why you should try and hide them. Some celebrities go for implants making their butts and breast look larger so why would you be ashamed of the assets that you already have? You should not concentrate on becoming light as a feather as most men will not consider it being sexy and will think that you are not happy with yourself.
Enjoy your Food
Most men don’t like women that starve themselves, they want to be able to enjoy food with someone special, not moaning about the calories, the amount of carbs and fat consumed. As long as your diet is balanced and you are not causing any damage to your own health there is no reason why you should refuse to have that gorgeous desert. Men want to be with women who have a healthy appetite and eat more than just a salad and rice cakes.
Be yourself rather than somebody else, someone fake with fake breasts, butt, nails, hair and tan. You are beautiful the way you are and do not let anyone influence the way you feel about yourself. Let’s be very honest here – men like something that they can grab on to, they love curvy and feminine bodies.
All men have their own preferences, but remember one – your man would not be with you if he didn’t think you were attractive. Plus size women in general tend to be sexier and more womanly due to their feminine shapes. Fuller face tends to look much nicer and friendlier so don’t hide it but be proud of it instead.
Dear women, please change your attitudes! Let’s not aspire to be like the skinny girls on the covers of the magazines, let’s be happy as we are with the gorgeous smile and healthy attitude towards life. As women we need to support each other rather than put each other down to feel better about ourselves.
Katherine is a fashion lover who enjoys writing about all the new fashion related trends and matters. In her free time she watches fashion TV and reads fashion magazines to inform her about all the current and new in the industry. She is very passionate about the good quality designer labels currently in the industry and enjoys educating others about it.
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